two year wedding anniversary
In terms of a marriage, two years is nothing! But it’s the first time where I feel like we might not be classified as “newlyweds” and I honestly can’t believe our wedding was two full years ago. I remember having so much anxiety leading up to the big day - not about marrying my husband, but about how the event would go and some of the dynamics with other relationships in my life. There were many tough circumstances that arose when during our 18 months of wedding planning and in some ways, I was just ready to move on, even though my wedding was something I’d looked forward to my whole life.
But I have to say, our actual day was so incredible. The love filling the air was palpable - the love we had for each other, our friends and family’s love for us and the way our families embraced each other. We both agree it was truly the best day of our lives so far. But in light of how scared I was going into the big day, here are the things I would tell myself about the wedding when I was nervous, if I could go back in time.
your moh’s reaction will be a permanent memory
Louise will cry pretty much the entire day. It will feel surreal living out a moment you’ve dreamt of together for 12+ years. Her speech was so emotional that she couldn’t look at you during it or she’d cry too much to finish and the whole experience made you even more grateful to call her your best friend.
your husband won’t cry when you walk down the aisle
He won’t cry when you have a first look. He won’t cry when you walk down the aisle. But the moment you’re alone just the two of you - truly alone with no cameras or vendors around - he will burst into tears and weep with joy. And you don’t need photos or videos to remember that always.
Walking back down the aisle will feel straight out of a movie
Euphoria is the only word you’ll be able to find to adequately describe walking back down the aisle. Your uncle was an amazing officiant - so good, in fact, that people asked if he officiates weddings professionally. And both of your vows ensured there wasn’t a dry eye in the house. Walking back down as husband and wife after that intimate experience with everyone you love will truly feel just like a movie.
Your dziadzio will talk about dancing with you forever
Dancing with Dziadzio will be one of the most special (and talked about) parts of your wedding. Despite his 98 (almost 99) years, he will twirl you around the dance floor. And every time you see him or call him in the years after, he will talk about dancing with you and say how he thinks you picked a very solid husband.
you will be so incredibly glad you have sneakers
Your feet will thank you! (But you will still get a bruised toe nail from dancing the night away. It’s worth it.)
